Being stuck in the house can be awesome, but staying put for weeks and maybe months on end can be, well, a lot. In this time of crisis, we’re all looking for ways to stay sane and keep our cool.

Which leads to a lot of impulse shopping online. I’m guilty of adding a ton of things to my cart, but refuse to feel any guilt over these quarantine impulse buys!

49 Quarantine Impulse Buys We Feel Zero Guilt Over

No matter what your guilty pleasure might be, chances are high that there is a product out there to help you scratch that itch. Since you’re stuck in an endless judgement free zone, there’s nothing stopping you from treating yourself.

It’s for your mental health.

Best Quarantine Impulse Entertainment Purchases

Whether you need something to make the endless hours of working from home less boring or you need to keep the kids occupied to, you know, actually work, entertainment is on everyone’s list.

Here’s what we bought to keep us all entertained:

• STARZ: binge watch Outlander and the new series Dublin Murders with a free trial
• Disney+: we bought this pre-pandemic, but it’s been paying off in spades with endless child entertainment hours
• Board games: honestly, we love a board game and so we stocked up on expansion packs for Cards with Friends and the kids’ version of Clue
• Puzzles: 500 pieces for me and under 100 piece puzzles for the kids mean lots of mind-challenging entertainment
• New York Times Sunday: just the At Home and puzzle sections alone make this worth it for tons of entertainment
• Inflatable movie screen: watch all of your best screening services in the backyard with a fun under-the-stars experience
• Nintendo Switch: it’s fun for the whole family and sanity for all parents

Zero Guilt Fitness Quarantine Impulse Buys

All the anxiety baking means lots of added calories. But some of us are committed to leaving self-isolation with some extra definition.

Here’s what’s on our fitness purchase list:

• Peloton bike: it’s the buzziest at-home fitness trend of the last 18 months, but also they have a sweet military discount
• Pull-up bar: you might already have one of these, but there’s nothing that says you can’t have two
• Rollerblades: relive your youth with a new pair of rollerblades – don’t forget a helmet and knees pads though
• Treadmill: if you’re not really into spinning, try jogging instead
• Kayak: maybe you live near water right now or maybe you’re planning for a future vacation
• Pedal boat: another fun buy if you’ve got a pond nearby

Backyard Fun & Essential Yard Purchases

We all need to escape our homes. If you’ve got a backyard, patio or even a decent sized balcony, you might consider grabbing some of these no guilt quarantine impulse buys.

• Yard games: badminton, corn hole, volleyball – we’re investing in all the classic backyard games
• Swings & slides: because the kids need a place to play since all the playgrounds are closed
• Tents: we’re really loving backyard camping in our 4 person setup, plus I can run inside for a real bed anytime I want
• Plants: some of us have gone extreme in the garden right now, with veggies, flowers and fruit being potted 24/7
• Trampoline: gets all the energy out and doubles as a fun fort, too
• Sprinkler: bring back the glory of our childhood with this retro way to cool off in the summer
• Bounce house: if you’ve got a little more space, pump one of these up in your yard and be the envy of your neighbors
• Sumo or dino costume: plant yourself costumed self on the porch while you work and watch your neighbors reactions to your style
• Hammock: your WFH boss just instituted a new afternoon routine, napping in the hammock
• Fire Pit: it’s not camping if you don’t make s’mores

Around the House Zero Guilt Quarantine Impulse Buys

You’re stuck inside the house, so you might as well do a few little things to spruce up the place. Or, you know, shop for an entirely new place to call home!

• A new house: whether it’s a pre-PCS purchase or a vacation/retirement home, the market hasn’t been this good in a while
• Pressure washer: keeps things looking nice and also ideal for taking out a little pent up aggression with the power of water
• Lovesac: if you’re spending all this time at home, you might as well be extra comfy
• Bar: since you can’t go to your favorite watering hole, bring it to you with a cool place to chill after a long day of WFH
• Roomba: suddenly, I’m seeing so much dirt around the house but don’t want to actually clean it myself
• Pool & hot tub: we only invested in a blow-up pool for the kids, but our friends went for an above ground pool and hot tub

Self-Care Purchases for the Win

Taking care of yourself and stying healthy is priority number one right now. Which makes all your pampering items feel less indulgent and more 100% necessary.

• Everything from LUSH: if I’m staying home 24/7, I’m going to do it smelling good
• Guilty pleasure TV: Melrose Place, the original 90210, Gilmore Girls -whatever your fave comfort TV show is, buy all the seasons and binge it
• Puppies & kittens: it doesn’t matter if you’re fostering or adopting or maybe just wandering through PetFinder, cuddly animals are 100% self-care right now
• Bidet: because being clean is essential right now, in all ways
• AirPods: if they’re in all the time, no one will know if I’d on a work call or if I’m listening to murder podcasts
• Korean face masks: again, I’d like to look nice while not seeing anyone at all

Guilt-Free Kitchen Items We’re Buying Right Now

It seems like we’ve all agreed that quarantine is going to be the time that we all become incredible cooks and/or bakers. Between sourdough starters and DIY canning, we’re all in the kitchen. Might as well do it up right.

• KitchenAide stand mixer: the piece de resistance of kitchen appliances, every serious home chef needs to own at least one
• Vitamix: whip up some healthy smoothies or make a batch of tomato soup, this mixer can do it all
• AirFryer: so that french fries can have some redeeming nutritional value, since that’s all the kids want to eat right now
• Pasta strainer: we just scored one that literally clips onto the pot, which is great for carbo loading to combat my pandemic anxiety
• Ice cream maker: if I can’t to Ben & Jerry’s, I’ll make my own cool flavor combos at home

Quarantine Impulse Buys We All Feel Zero Guilt Over

Be honest: even if you haven’t bought any of the things at the top of this list, you’ve definitely purchased at least one of the things on this, the final list of quarantine impulse buys.

• Toilet paper: because you can never have enough
• Booze: whatever you prefer, you’re gonna stock up just in case things get really bad
• Takeout or delivery: cooking 3 meals a day, every day gets really old, really fast
• Target pickup: if you can’t get your Target fix, you can at least get your most essential impulse buys brought to your car
• Beans: canned, dried, refried – we’re all buying beans for their long shelf life
• Flour & yeast: because we need ingredients to become the next Iron Chef
• Hair dye: whether you went with semi-permanent or really committed, we’re all switching up our looks right now
• LEGOs and puzzles: even work doesn’t fill our entire day, so we’re deep diving these sets – first up: Harry Potter
• Coffee: because we all need to be caffeinated to handle life right now

What’s your no guilt quarantine impulse buy? Sound off in the comments!

The entire US military has existed under a stop movement order since March. It’s placed deployments, homecomings and PCS moves on pause for thousands of troops and their families from coast-to-coast. When we finally can move more normally, what will the post-pandemic PCSing realities look like?

Post-Pandemic PCSing Realities You Need to Plan for Now

As of publication, the military-wide stop movement order has been extended through June 30 by Secretary of Defense Mark Esper. This order will be reviewed every 15 days, according to an April 18 Military Times article. The frequent review could potentially result in an early lifting of the order or might extend the order, depending on how the pandemic response and infection rates evolve.

In the meantime, thousands of military families are waiting on word about their summer PCS moves. There are lots of questions, especially about the real-world application of the DOD’s moving guidance document.

Once we’re free to move about the country again, you’re going to want to be fully ready to move ASAP.

When Can I Move?

While most PCS orders are paused, there are some troops who have been and will be granted exemptions, according to military move expert Megan Harless.

“Some of these moves are still happening from either exemptions, such as being mission essential or in a hardship status, or by exception to policy, such as medical or financial hardship,” Harless explained.

Those exemptions include:

• Mid-PCS: service members and their families who have physically left their previous duty station and are en route to the next location
• Troops who are EASing or retiring
• Mission essential
• Humanitarian
• As a result of extreme hardship

MilitaryOneSource notes that those who are in middle of moves or just about to begin the PCS process, need to remain in close contact with their chain of command and their move coordinator.

Exemptions must be applied for. PCS orders that cannot be followed as originally written will be re-issued with adjusted no later than dates.

“Once the stop move order is lifted, troops will be able to PCS without issue,” Harless explained. “Just to note, each service branch has also implemented their own regulations in regards to PCSing this summer and many have seen their report dates get shifted.”

What Happens When PCSing Starts Again?

If you are moving and are not exempted from the stop movement, it’s important that you stay on top of your PCS orders and the moving process.

“Those who are not moving (right now) are being issued amended orders for later in the year, and some have requested to defer their move until next year,” according to Harless.

Harless recommends that troops also remain in close contact with the Travel Management Office and their move coordinator(s).

“(Move coordinators) are designed to be your single point of contact during your move and give you updates on your assigned dates, weight, delivery, and any issues,” Harless said. “If your move has not started or you cannot get a hold of your move coordinator, you can always call your local transportation office, or the moving hotline for assistance.”

Is it Safe to Drive Cross-Country or Fly?

Right now, Harless is getting reports that many hotels across the country are taking precautionary measures to ensure the safety of their guests.

“Those that have been staying at hotels have said that many of them are very clean and have taken steps to ensure safety for everyone to include boxed breakfasts.”

When staying at a hotel, Harless recommends:

• driving slightly longer each day to cut down on overnight stays
• send one adult into the hotel room to wipe everything down with cleansing wipes

Harless also recommends booking the most direct flight option possible to reduce layovers.

Will This Moving Season Be Busier?

“I think the season is still going to be pretty active this year despite the stop move order and all the change in orders,” Harless predicted. “Industry has noted a drop in the shipments each week compared to last years.”

While things might not be busier right now, there are warning about delays in shipments. This could result in a longer gap between when your HHG are packed and when you receive them in the next location.

“(T)here have been warnings about possible delays in receiving your shipment based on the number of shipments that have gone into storage but not yet delivered during this time frame,” she said.

Harless has noticed that there are more anecdotal reports of families opting for PPM, or DITY, moves as opposed to relying on the military for packing and shipping.

What Can I Do Now to Prep for My Move Later?

Harless is a big advocate of pre-packing, especially this year with PCSing season on pause for much of the military.

She recommends that you:

• purge unwanted items to sell, donate or dispose of
• pre-pack items you are not currently using
• use space saver bags to flat pack soft items, like linens or winter clothes
• ziploc bags for small toys and items you don’t want separated
• totes to organize space saver bags and ziploc bags by type

“Moving companies have said that if families want to start packing things they aren’t using that is fine, just leave the box open so they can verify the contents,” she said. “Don’t worry if you do start packing your items because according to the Claim and Liability Business Rules, anything the moving company takes possession of they are liable for.”

Where Can I Go for Help?

You should remain in contact with your gaining and sending commands to ensure continuity of orders. Your move coordinator is also a good point of contact.

For official DOD guidance, troops and families should reference the PCS FAQ issued via move.mil.

Military service members can also find up to date PCS information at MilitaryOneSource.

Has your PCS been impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic? Sound off in the comments!

With so much of our US military operating under special conditions due to the pandemic, many troops who might otherwise qualify for special duty pay might not meet monthly requirements. However, the DOD has released guidance to help commands and service members navigate options related to pay during the pandemic.

3 Special Pandemic Pay & Incentives You Need to Know

The military is being tasked with different duties and roles, as well as having normal operations and troop movements disrupted due to the coronavirus pandemic.

In response to these unprecedented times, the US Department of Defense has released several guidance letters to commanders across the services to support troops.

Special Duty Pay You Typically Receive

Many military specialities receive monthly special duty pay for performing aspects of their jobs. For example, pilots, flight crews and aviation maintenance crews all receive additional pay for these duties. However, this pay may be tied to achieving minimum monthly hours performing in this role, such as flight hours.

With many troops tasked elsewhere or no longer doing their typical jobs, those monthly hours are not being logged. This could remove that special duty pay from the next pay check.

The DOD has announced that troops who typically receive such pay incentives but cannot perform those duties as a direct result of COVID-19 shutdowns, may have recourse.

The Service Secretary for each branch of the military now has the option to waive those requirements for special duty pay.

This would mean that you could continue to receive that special duty pay even if you are unable to perform that specific job due to the pandemic.

In order to see if you qualify, speak to your unit chain of command.

Restriction of Movement Hardship Duty Pay

Some troops may be ordered to self-quarantine in a location other than their home due to possible exposure to COVID-19. In some cases, there may be additional hardship duty pay available to help defray costs associated with the quarantine.

In order to qualify, troops must be lodging somewhere other than their own home, government quarters or a hotel paid for at government expense. In other words, the hotel is being paid for out of pocket by an individual and is not going to be submitted for reimbursement later.

For troops who meet this criteria, there is an allowance of up to $100 per day and $1500 per month for costs associated with self-quarantine in a hotel.

To find out if you qualify, please speak to your chain of command.

Carry-Over Leave Max Cap Extended

With leave still allowed, but restricted to the service member’s local area only, many troops may not be taking leave in the near future. In addition, many military personnel are also working from home if possible and may require less leave time than previously. Since so much of the country are shut down, even in areas around military bases, taking leave may not be high on anyone’s to-do list.

Now, troops do not have to worry about exceeding the previous 60-day leave cap. Secretary of Defense Mark Esper announced recently that troops who are “performing acting service” may rollover up to 120 days of leave through September 30, 2023.

This temporary policy change would prevent troops from losing unused leave time, as would previously happen with the 60-day cap. The change recognizes the changes in troop movements and responsibilities as a result of the pandemic, as well as the necessity of time off for force readiness and overall troop health.

As the current global health crisis evolves, and hopefully resolves, in the coming months, monitor updated DOD policies and other force changes.

Financial Counselors Available Virtually

If you are struggling with your finances or have been impacted financially by the pandemic, personal financial counselors are available to support you virtually.

Counseling services are offered without cost to service members and their families. All counselors are certified in financial counseling and education.

Contact your local Family Center for more information.

Have you been impacted financially by the pandemic? Sound off in the comments!

During the COVID-19 Pandemic taking care of your health can be confusing especially when it comes to navigating TRICARE and the Military Health System. Even a cough generates the question do I have the “Corona”? Other questions can be admin related such as my ID card has expired. Rumors are rampant so here is where you can find accurate and updated information.

Accurate Information

Did you know TRICARE is on Facebook? This is a great source of information.  The latest  TRICARE on Facebook post gives information about using the emergency room at a military hospital during the pandemic and the steps taken to insure your safety. Another place to find detailed information is the official Tricare Corona Virus page on their website. Great accurate up to date information and frequently asked questions. It also has a section of symptoms and signs of Corona Virus. It gave a better explanation for me than I had seen anywhere else.

ID Cards

One of the big questions is what do I do if my ID Card expires? Service Members can renew online.  For family members and military retirees if your Uniformed Services ID (ID card) expired on or after Jan. 1, 2020 you can continue to use your card until Sept. 30, 2020 to receive care and fill prescriptions. If you have a new family member for TRICARE, make sure all their information is updated into the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS). You will then be able to mail, fax or email your paperwork to your nearest ID card issuing facility. For more information visit ID Card Online Office.

Telemedicine

I recently had a routine medical appointment over the phone. It worked well for just basic questions and updates on my existing condition. What is you have new illness or symptoms of COVID-19? Contact the Military Health System (MHS) Nurse Advice Line. A Military Health System registered nurse can answer your questions as well as assess your symptoms over the phone. They can screen you as well for COVID-19. They can coordinate follow up medical visits with a health care provider either virtually or in person depending on the medical condition. Important: When you receive a call, it will show up as blocked or unknown. Make sure to answer during your appointment time.

COVID – 19 Myths vs. Facts

The TRICARE website also has a section of Myths vs Facts and I found it highly informative. It has detailed information on why and how to wear a mask and dispels the myth that homemade cloth masks aren’t effective. They are and the site has suggestions on how to wear, material etc.

Another myth is there are no resources for children to help them cope. Here are two: Military Kids Connect and Sesame Street for Military Families.

One way you can help is to share Coronavirus infographics such as the one on this page on your social media. The TRICARE Facebook page has a bunch to choose from. If you do share information on social media make sure it is from reliable, vetted sources.

Sign up for TRICARE Email Alerts to stay up to date on the latest news.

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com

It’s been approximately one million days of pandemic self-isolation. And while mostly everyone is working from home, those male military regulation haircuts are looking a little scruffy.

Ladies in the military, I’m sorry. This post is for all the gents out there because they’ve got to keep it high and tight.

Now, look, no one wants to leave the house because germs. Which 100% removes going to the barber as an option.

What’s a hard-charging guy to do? Enlist his spouse to do the perfect fade for him, of course!

Easy Tips for a Perfect Pandemic Military Haircut

Editor’s Note: no Marines were physically harmed in the haircutting process detailed in this article. However, his pride was deeply wounded.

And that’s exactly what my husband did in April. Suddenly, I needed to learn how to do a zero to three fade on his head. Perfect symmetry was a must, obviously, as well as a faultless blend.

What follows is my documentation of that attempt. Full disclosure: he wouldn’t submit to pictures being taken during this journey. You’ll understand why.

Pre-Cut Research

I’ve seen my husband’s gorgeous Devil Dog-authorized military cut for over a decade. But I’ve never attempted to administer this cut myself. However, duty called and I responded, “Aye-aye!”

Before I whipped out the clippers, I wanted to do a little research first. So I turned to my trusty ally: YouTube.

After watching this guy cut his own hair, I felt ready to tackle my husband’s hair.

Clippers were oiled and a suitable salon-worthy cape was acquired. Ready for action.

In Which I Attempt a Marine Corps Fade

Things didn’t go well from the start. Even with a complete walkthrough in the video, when confronted with an actual head of hair, I felt woefully unprepared.

Still, he needed to meet regulations and I was the only one around to support him. Before firing up the Wahl, I triple checked that he didn’t want to just attempt this himself.

“How bad could it be?”

Oh, we were about to find out.

The first pass at the base of his neck went well. and I got the zero part of his cut done nicely.

The first issue popped up as I attempted to move to the next section: not zero.

Giving a Perfect Military Haircut is Hard!

Fun fact: heads are lumpy and bumpy, making symmetrical haircuts a challenge under the best of circumstances. These were not the best of circumstances.

My clippers slipped a little and suddenly that zero cut was reaching a lot higher up the back of his head.

No worries, I can totally fix this when I blend.

I moved on to the next segment and swapped in a new clipper guard. As I attempted to mix the completely shaved section of hair into the very low buzzed section, I started to feel like I was in over my head.

Not helping matters was the fact that my spouse is 6’3′. I’m 5’9″, but even sitting in a chair, it was hard to move my body around to keep things even.

The Tight Part Gets Higher

As lines kept zigging and zagging, I kept trying to adjust. Suddenly, that tight part of the haircut was very high on his head.

Oops.

Also, I 100% gave him an out from this disaster and he refused. It’s basically his own fault.

Again, I paused and let him assess the damage. Yes, even the very high and very tight sections.

Still, he insisted that it could be “fixed.” I, however, was losing my very limited faith in both myself and my video instructor. This was not going according to his video. Although, operator error was likely a factor.

Admitting Defeat in the Quest for a Military Reg Pandemic Cut At Home

I made a valiant attempt to do damage control, as requested. But what ended up happening was that things got a whole lot balder.

Truly, I tried to make things seem okay. I even switched out the guard for a longer attachment for the top section.

But there was just no saving this ‘do from the inevitable.

Because we were doing this at the kitchen table, there wasn’t a mirror immediately available for him to check on my progress. I just had a handheld one for quick checks.

As I kept going, at his insistence that it couldn’t be that bad, I lost it. Tears sprang to my eyes as I took in the ruin of his hair. I was sad, but also trying to keep the giggles from erupting and revealing just how badly I had done.

Finally, I lost control. There was no way that this haircut could be salvaged from the inevitable.

I broke it to my sweet, trusting husband gently.

“Babe, you’re gonna lose it all.”

He shuddered, but agreed once he looked at my attempt in the mirror. He handed over the clippers once again and I got to work. This time, I didn’t even attempt to use anything other than the lowest setting, evening everything out to “zero.”

Lessons were learned by all during this trying time.

First, don’t get attached to your hair. And second, lean into the bald look. It’s technically military regulation approved!

What’s your funniest at-home haircut story? Sound off in the comments!

It’s Wednesday morning and I am in the air flying to my father’s funeral. It is so surreal to be experiencing this during the Covid-19 pandemic. In some ways, it is so much harder and in others way things are simpler. My father passed away on Monday of an emergency not the corona virus.

My father a retired naval officer lived in a Louisiana State Veteran’s Home. My Mother received a call there was a complication from a minor medical procedure and they were taking him by ambulance to the hospital. My Mother called the family and then proceeded to wait in the emergency room parking lot. She saw my Dad go into the hospital from the ambulance but was not allowed to be with him. The staff was kind to my mother and came out to update her that he had arrived and the doctor would come out once he had examined Dad. My Mom updated us and we weren’t thinking that anything was serious.

Death

Dying during a pandemic is a terrible way to die because you are alone. The doctor came out to see my mom and was full of empathy as he informed my mother that my dad had passed away while she sat in the car alone in the emergency room parking lot. My poor mother called everyone from the car and continued to wait in the parking lot until she could see my father for the last time. The wait involved waiting for the coroner. Finally, she was able to go into to see my father which was a real blessing for her. The last time she had seen him was through the window of the nursing home as no visitors were allowed. The doctor escorted my mother into see dad and he was so thoughtful. When my mom expressed a wish that her children could see him he helped her take a photo that she could share with us. She mentioned to me when she shared the story how young the doctor was. I couldn’t imagine how much death he had seen in his short career.

Getting There

After the shock subsided, all the questions emerged. Can we have a funeral? Should I fly? Is it risky to be with my mom coming from Washington State? Is it dangerous for me to go to Louisiana? My husband jumped into gear and was already looking into flights while I was on the phone. He said something that really resonated with me. “We got this, we are a military family and they aren’t like other families.” So true and with the precision of an operations order, flights were booked, notifications and decisions made. Due to travel restrictions for my husband and my son distant learning we decided I would go alone.

Flights were a little challenging as there were limited options. Luckily, I was flying out of a major airport and although I couldn’t fly into Baton Rouge the nearest airport I was able to get into New Orleans is only an hour drive away. A positive is that last minute flights are much less than they normally are and first class was not an expensive upgrade.

The Funeral

We were all nervous as to what would happen due to all the news stories about morgues and funeral homes overwhelmed. We lucked out and everything was arranged very quickly but also very sad. We can’t have a catholic funeral mass which is tragic for our family. We are only allowed 10 people in a cemetery service. One thing my dad has always expressed a wish for was to have military honors and that is not an option at this time. So even though it is very difficult it is also simpler with easy decisions and much less expense for my father’s estate.

The Silver Lining

My mother is 80 and I was worried about her and the fact we couldn’t travel. I am able to go spend a week with her. I am very grateful for the resilience I have built during my years as a military spouse that kicks in at times like these. I know I will get through this but I have to admit it is tough. So this is what it is like to lose a loved one during these times. Reach out to those you love especially the older ones. Call or use snail mail and connect in these uncertain times. You won’t regret it.

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com

We’re all stuck at home for the foreseeable future. And we’re trying to limit our grocery shopping outings. Right now is the perfect time to plan for your long game by planting a patio or container garden!

Plant a Patio Garden to Harvest Fresh Produce All Summer

Planting a small garden on your patio or balcony can help you to add more fresh herbs or veggies into your diet, while also reducing your spending on produce.

Just think about how much you’ll spend on tomatoes alone this summer!

Planting your garden in containers or raised beds makes things easier to manage. You can also control just how many plants you raise and how much space you take up with your fun stay-at-home project.

Get Set for Gardening Success

Before you go hog wild at the nursery, you’ll need to set yourself up for success.

1. Scout your yard, patio or balcony for a sunny spot
2. Measure the area
3. Decide which plants you’re going to prioritize; look for easy care plants
4. Choose your containers – long rectangles, big pots, hanging pots, raised bed
5. Do a little research into your ideal plants to see what they like – sun/shade, soil type, best planting times for your climate zone
6. Sketch out your ideal garden using graph paper to keep things neat and organized

It’s important to take these steps before you start actually planting things. It would be such a bummer to buy tomatoes and then realize that you’re not in the best set-up to grow them!

Another great tip is to keep your containers, whatever they might be, easy for you to access while also providing ample space for plants to grow. For square planters, stick to about 4’x4′ to keep all your plants within arms reach. Round or oval planters should err on the side of being bigger instead of a bunch of very small containers. This will give growing plants space to spout and help you avoid multiple repottings.

You can grab all your pots and containers on Amazon, along with your seeds. For living seedlings, best for herbs, broccoli and tomatoes, you’ll need to dash into the nearest gardening center or home improvement store.

While you’re there, pick up your soil. Lowe’s has a handy calculator to help you figure out how much soil you’ll need to buy.

Planting for Maximum Produce

No matter how much you love beans, if that’s all you’re planting you might end up getting sick of them before you finish your harvest.

Instead, diversify your garden with several types of plants. Before you buy, keep the actual space you have in mind. A giant pumpkin, for example, isn’t ideal for a teeny, tiny patio. They need lots of space to spread out – something you might not have.

Instead, try these plants for the space you have:

• Tomatoes: use stakes or tomato cages to keep everything under control
• Eggplants
• Peppers
• Beans: grow on a trellis or fabric netting stretched vertically
• Greens, like lettuce, kale, Swiss chard
• Radishes: grow in a deeper pot for these root veggies
• Herbs
• Cucumbers: use cages, netting or stakes to help train these vines to take up the least space
• Squash: train these vine-y plants up or over on a trellis

To increase your harvest per square foot, you could follow the pairing method of planting or the square foot gardening method.

Farmers Almanac recommends planting crops of different heights with various harvest times but that have complementary soil, sun and nutrient needs. Some good partners are:

• tomatoes + basil
• peppers + basil
• corn + beans
• cucumber + peas
• radishes + leafy greens like lettuce and kale

Another high-yield planting plan is the square foot gardening method. Instead of planting in rows, this method uses 1’x1′ squares that are then divided up into smaller squares.

Different plants require different amounts of space. For example, one tomato plant can be planted in a square foot, but 16 carrot, radish or turnip plants can be planted in that same space.

Maintaining Your Crops

Now that you’re a gardener and your crops are planted, you’ll need to keep a watchful eye to ensure their growth and success.

Making sure that your plants are watered is the first step. Next is weeding out, well, weeds.

Pull plants that are unwanted, like dandelions and grass, from your gardening containers. Using the paired planting or square foot method helps you to see which plants are yours and which are “extra.”

Last, watch for bugs and pests. Tomatoes are prone to aphids and big green worms. You can use natural deterrents, like marigolds or strategic planting pairings, to avoid some of the problem. You may still need to physically remove pests or bugs. Treating your plants with a pesticide or all-natural spray is another way to keep them healthy.

What are your best small-space gardening tips and tricks? Sound off in the comments.

We’re all trying to stay 6-8 feet apart to prevent the spread of coronavirus through our communities. However, with so many people out of work and needing support, we still want to support others through the pandemic.

Help Others While Staying Socially Distant

Helping people is second nature for many in the military and veteran community. We thrive on supporting people in times of need. But right now we also need to keep our distance to prevent infection with COVID-19.

You can do both! Try these simple ways to help others with staying socially distant!

Remember, donating is a 100% contactless way to support others and provide relief for our most vulnerable communities.

Help the Global Community

People around the world are suffering under the pandemic. You can help by supporting charities through targeted giving.

• Doctors Without Borders: supporting communities in need
• Red Cross: providing needed medical relief and supplies for communities around the world
• Save the Children: supporting kids in need by providing medical care, education materials and food
• World Health Organization: the WHO has been on the frontlines responding to the pandemic since the early stages – you can support that mission

Charitable Giving in the US

Keep your donations closer to home through donations to US-based charities that provide support to vulnerable people.

• Donate blood: use America’s Blood to find a blood drive near you (note: this is not a contactless donation)
• Boys & Girls Clubs: help keep kids from going hungry by donating to your local chapter or the national organization
• CERF+: support artists and craftspeople who are impacted by lost income due to canceled events or those who have fallen ill
• DirectRelief: help them deliver needed protective equipment and supplies that medical professionals needs to keep operations going
• Feeding America: helping by providing food boxes, supporting food pantries and keeping local operations running with grants
• No Kid Hungry: supporting children who rely on school to provide nutritious meals and children in food insecure households
• Meals on Wheels: help senior citizens eat with a donation to this essential organization
• Ronald McDonald House Charities: supporting the families of critically ill children with housing and meals; currently repurposing some spaces for doctors and medical professionals who are on the frontlines of the pandemic

Give Support in Your Community

While helping on a global or national scale is definitely needed, there are lots of ways to donate in your own backyard. Remember: giving your money or in-kind donations if often contactless!

• Donate to your local food back, either with monetary support or non-perishable goods
• Check with the local school districts to see if they need support
• Call senior centers and nursing homes to find out what they need
• Contact animal rescues and shelters to find out more about fostering an animal or supporting in another way
• Contact the local chapters of the Red Cross, No Kid Hungry or similar groups to offer your donations
• Coordinate with homeless shelters or other support organizations to help pack kits of supplies or donate in another way

If you are stuck for ideas, search online for:

your community + coronavirus + donate

More Personal Ways to Help Your Hometown

If you don’t or can’t donate money, consider donating your time and energy. You can still help your neighbors in large and small ways during the coronavirus pandemic.

• Sew masks out of fabric
• 3D print masks
• Run errands for those in quarantine or who are at high risk of infection
• Mow lawns and weed gardens
• Walk dogs for overwhelmed parents, as well as elderly or ill neighbors
• Take part in community scavenger hunts, like stuffed animal safaris or rainbow hunts
• Offer your services for free, via online booking systems
• Read children’s stories out loud on YouTube or Facebook LIVE
• Surprise your loved ones with letters or postcards

Helping in the Military Communities We Love

Military families might be facing extra strain during this time, especially since the “normal” flow of our lives has been disrupted in different ways.

The Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society is providing support for Marines and sailors who have hit financial hardship.

The Air Force Aid Society is also providing support for airmen and their families during the pandemic.

You could also connect with the chaplains for your unit or at the nearest base. Ask about on-post food banks or ways to help.

Contact the CDCs on-base to see if they need supplies or protective equipment. Many child care centers are remaining open to provide care for essential military and civilian personnel.

Disabled American Veterans (DAV) is providing guidance and support for veterans throughout the pandemic. They are offering grants and monetary support for eligible veterans facing unemployment due to coronavirus.

VFW posts around the country are finding ways to support local veterans and the greater communities they serve. Contact your local VFW to learn about their work and how you can help.

How are you supporting others while staying safe? Sound off in the comments.

Before D-Day and the Pacific island hopping campaign, the Greatest Generation learned the hard way how to get through the toughest of times. Many who served in World War II, as well as those who waited on the home front, had already survived the Great Depression, a time of massive unemployment and food insecurity beginning in 1929 and lasting right up to the start of the war.

Channel the Greatest Generation to Grit Through the Pandemic

As we face our own great test, the coronavirus pandemic, we should be modeling ourselves after the gritty men and women who made the best of what they had.

Facing an Uncertain Future

The Greatest Generation lived their formative years and early adulthood under the strain of economic depression. Families scraped by on what little they had and work was often scarce.

Jobs were uncertain. Food supply was uncertain. Life was a roller coaster.

Then, the world was plunged into a violent war across two oceans and continents. Even survival wasn’t guaranteed for the troops; loved ones lived with the knowledge that loss was likely imminent.

And yet, they survived. Many thrived. They lived to, literally, fight another day.

They did it by living in gratitude for what they had. This generation enjoyed simple pleasures and treasured their families.

Communities pulled together to get by during those challenging times.

Here’s how we can use the lessons of the Greatest Generation today:

• love your family well
• enjoy what you have today
• be grateful for what you have
• share what you can, when you can
• tell your loved ones how you feel
• save what you can for the future

Missing Loved Ones

During the Depression, many husbands and fathers needed to move away from their families just to find work. Then all able bodied men and many women joined the fight in World War II.

Missing someone they loved was a fact of life.

Here’s how the Greatest Generation made it through:

• writing letters
• sending pictures
• keeping diaries
• phoning when able
• making the most of the days they were together

Use those tips with a modern twist:

• send emails instead of, or in addition to, writing letters or postcards
• start a shared photo album or add new photos to a digital photo frame
• use a shared Google Doc to write down your experiences daily
• connect via video chat
• play games virtually via video chat
• watch a move together, separately with Netflix Party
• make plans for fun with friends and family post-pandemic

Essential Food Shortages

Before the current pandemic even started to really hit the US, stores saw their entire stock of toilet paper get wiped out. Now, we’re seeing shortages of food essentials like flour, milk, bread and eggs.

This wouldn’t have been unfamiliar to the WW2 generation. They lived through the Depression, when many food items were simply too expensive to buy frequently. And then the War brought food rationing to help keep the troops well fed.

They learned how to cook with smart swaps, like using applesauce for eggs or oil. We can use some of these recipes today!

What they couldn’t buy, they often learned to grow themselves! Almost every family had a victory garden in their yard, on their patio or as part of a larger community garden. You can still see victory gardens in Boston.

You can use these tips from the Greatest Generation to handle food shortages during the COVID-19 pandemic:

• grow your favorite veggies at home in containers or raised beds
• plant herbs in tin cans and place in a sunny window
• join a CSA or farm co-op in your area to support local farmers and grab fresh produce
• use pantry staples to cook filling meals
• bake your own bread, if possible
• learn how to can or pickle

Limited Travel Options

During World War II, gas was rationed, as were rubber tires. Both materials were desperately needed to supply the troops overseas.

This caused travel to be very limited. No long road trips!

Today, we are all mostly limited to socially distant outings in our immediate area. We can’t cross state lines for fun or adventure anymore.

In addition, flying for any non-essential reason is frowned upon. Cruises are floating petri dishes, too.

Vacations are basically canceled for the foreseeable future.

Channel the Greatest Generation to have fun in your own backyard:

• explore a local hiking trail
• take a walk in your neighborhood
• garden
• play games outside
• sit outside and read
• treat your town like a tourist – explore outside locations

Note: all activities in public spaces should be outside and observing the 6-8 foot social distancing guideline. Avoid crowded places, playgrounds and indoor activities in public places.

How has coronavirus impacted your daily life? Sound off in the comments.

If you’ve never been a homeschooler with schools around the country going to distance learning; you are now a military family homeschool. You may be lucky like I am with a school that anticipated a scenario where students would be at home and fully implemented a digital school plan. We finished regular school the week before and started distance learning the following Monday. Many aren’t so lucky. So here is a guide to help you out.

The most important thing to know is that a homeschool day is much shorter than a normal school day which is what appeals to those that homeschool full time. Most children work well independently and can complete their schoolwork by lunchtime. Create a schedule and if you want the school day longer you will have to plan for it. Consider adding art, music, virtual library time and P.E. to extend the day.

Create A Schedule

This is the number one most important thing you need to do. Treat each weekday as if it is a school/work day and follow a set routine. Children function much better when they know what to expect each day. Plan the day to mimic a school day. A simple routine:

Early morning – Wake children up at their normal weekday time. Have everybody get dressed, eat breakfast and complete any morning chores such as making their beds.

Morning – School begins at a set hour. Make sure you review requirements from your children’s school. They may have requirements to be online at a certain time. This is a good time to review what work they must complete for the day.

Lunch – Everyone in the household takes the same lunch break. Have time to eat and then have the kids get outside for a bit.

Afternoon – Finish up any work not completed in the morning. The afternoon should be devoted to electives like art, music, PT etc.

Dinner –

Evening – Free time, evening chores homework and then a set bedtime each night.

This routine is super simple and sometimes that is the best. Lindsay Power, @NoShameParenting has some great advice on Raising Kids During the Coronavirus and not being so stressed about being the perfect homeschool parent.

Military One Source is a great resource for military family homeschoolers because it also lists resources available on military installations. Here are their suggestions for planning your homeschool week:

• Consider your child’s age. Transitioning to home-based learning will be very different for a preschool student than a middle or high school student. Discuss your expectations for learning at home and go over any concerns so you are on the same page.
• Set and follow a weekday schedule for starting and ending the school day and going to bed. All children benefit from structure, even if they try to resist it.
• Build in flexibility to accommodate your own work and other responsibilities. You may be teleworking, for example. See if you and your spouse, partner or another adult in your household can share some of the teaching. It might also help to set aside time in the evenings to check over assignments or work together on reading and other skills.
• Take breaks. Schedule time during the school day for lunch, snacks and age-appropriate breaks. Think physical education, recess, etc.
• Build in time for creativity. Make time for music, art and other creative subjects. This may include time for your child to practice an instrument, draw, paint, try their hand at drama or develop other skills. Have younger children practice counting by stacking blocks, or build a fort from sheets.
• Help your child safely connect with friends and relatives. Connecting with friends and family members outside your household is important. Work with your child’s school, their friends’ parents and others to help them stay in touch. Consider taking turns leading virtual lessons or hosting virtual play dates. Have your child write letters to people they care about while practicing handwriting and grammar.

Preschoolers

A note on preschoolers. This can be a real challenge as not every state has preschool as part of the school system. The National Head Start Association which specializes in preschool education has a wealth of free resources to Learn at Home. I found their information on Noggin from Nickelodeon to be very helpful. They are offering three months free and have hundreds of read-aloud e-books, games, songs and other content geared to preschoolers. The platform also has a weekly series of play activities to do offline. Perfect for getting out all that toddler energy.

School Age Children

Make sure to tap into all the resources available through your child’s school. Most schools are going to digital learning with virtual lessons and online assignments. Help your child log on and if needed read instructions together to help them understand the requirements. Reach out to teachers or counselors for any help you may need. Also keep in touch if you have any issues regarding technology or if your child falls behind in the work that is do.

Electives

Integrate the arts and physical activity into each school day. You may also want to consider offering life skills and teach your children how to cook and do laundry. I once worked at a wilderness education program and we taught children math by planning and cooking meals.

Installation Resources

Each installation has homeschooling resources. Reach out to the school liaison officers to find out what is available on your base. If you are stationed overseas check out the Head Start/Sure Start programs . Did you know Military OneSource has Education Consultants? Call 800.342.9647 to make a one-on-one session to discuss your child’s education. They can help you find resources in your area.

The Morale, Welfare and Recreation Digital Library has tons of free online resources for children, teens and adults. In addition to e-books there are educational resources such as ScienceFlix which has hands-on projects. Videos and other interactive features to help teach science concepts and ideas.

Art, Music and Physical Education

Art can be anything from simple art projects. Pinterest or Michael’s are great resources for ideas. Look for your favorite art museum online. While they are closed many are offering special activities for children. The National Gallery of Art (NGA) kids app for iPad is an immersive experience giving children the opportunity to explore more than 300 years of art history. Animation and audio features make learning fun.  The app covers: Portrait, Landscape, Seascape, Still Life, Action Painting, Exploring Color, Color Field, Collage, Sketchbook, and My Art Gallery. This is a great resource. A fun activity is to have children pick a favorite famous painting and recreate it for sharing on social media.

Many music teachers that have military family students offer virtual lessons so a student can continue with the same instructor even after they move. Gen Mayo, is a veteran homeschool mom and a music teacher for over 25 years. On her blog, Music In Your Homeschool she shares Six Ways to Teach Music in Your homeschool. A very good resource. If you don’t want to get too technical, have an afternoon dance party. Introduce your children to different genres of music and explain what you like or dislike about each one.

Physical Education – For many families the military member is working from home now too. What a great resource to lead family PT each day. This is a good opportunity for the service member to connect with their children while giving the spouse a break. Mary Ann Kelley, has managed a homeschool website for more than 20 years. Read her Ideas for Homeschool PT.  Childcare Extension has some useful tips on integrating motor development and fine motor skills into play and learning. They also recommend a variety of resources.

Other Resources

The QNS website offers so many websites and resources. The COVID-19 Shelter in Place rules will be lifted before you have checked out everything listed on this site!

This is a tough and challenging time for everyone.

Most importantly, Be Kind to Yourself. And…

Enlist your spouse to assist with homeschool duties. What are your favorite homeschool tips which are helping you get through being a homeschool teacher?

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com